An important question

If you were at a coffee shop and somebody asked you to watch over their stuff while they took a call or used the restroom, to what extent would you intervene if somebody else came by and walked off with it?

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I'd probably go so far as to verbally restrain the guy, possibly enlisting other patrons around me in the shop, until the owner who'd given me the task came back. But I probably wouldn't get physical.

Posted by: Trevor on October 17, 2007 10:59 AM

OK, this actually happened to me once, sort of. This woman asked me to watch her things while she ran down to 7-11, and her things included a laptop and an iPod. This jerky looking kid came by and sort of lazily dragged his hand across her table in an effort to deftly pick up the iPod. I yelled at him, "Hey, that's not yours!" really loud so everyone looked, and he just walked away and out of the store, leaving the iPod there.

If he had gone ahead and taken everything, I think the most I'd be willing to do is call the police. I doubt I would have gotten up and grabbed some guy's arm to prevent the theft.

Posted by: Sommer on October 17, 2007 11:18 AM

I meant what i said and i said what i meant...

Posted by: horton on October 17, 2007 12:25 PM

Once, while working at a record store, I sprinted (I use that term loosely) after a guy who had stolen a near-worthless (used) CD. So I'm confident I'd go to physical lengths to protect a laptop.

My boss had my co-worker Jeff and I split $50 (why he got half, I don't know.)

Posted by: Jerry on October 17, 2007 01:51 PM

As Mitt's new employee said, "I wouldn't hesitate to stick a knife in someone's thigh."

Posted by: Thomas Allen on October 17, 2007 05:01 PM

Someone did a study of this--of how often people intervene when directly asked to watch someone else's stuff, versus when the person just walked off. I, uh, am too lazy to look for details.

Posted by: greg c on October 17, 2007 10:13 PM

Did this happen to you?

Posted by: ed on October 17, 2007 10:21 PM

Not exactly. I left my stuff on a table without asking anybody to do anything. Everybody around me was deeply immersed in the things they were doing (reading, working, talking) and I figured (correctly) that if something did happen, nobody would actually do anything anyhow.

Then I'd have no computer, and a grudge against somebody totally innocent simply because they didn't want to put themselves on the line for me.

Posted by: Brian on October 18, 2007 09:17 AM

So did you lose anything. Or just your faith in humanity?

BTW how 'bout leaving a booby trapped iPod?

Posted by: gremlin on October 18, 2007 09:56 PM

Didn't lose anything, fortunately.

Posted by: Brian on October 19, 2007 01:30 AM

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